This is due to how they are managing money and their mindset towards money. I got the inspiration to write this blog from Ken Honda’s Japanese Book (Solutions to Money Issues).
Wealthy people spend money on things that generate money. If you want to become wealthy then you have to increase your money IQ that is “spend your money wisely”.
Often, the reason people can’t save money is that they make poor choices when they spend their money. In fact, I would even say that learning how to spend your money is often a more difficult task than learning how to earn your money.
Let me introduce a secret wealth people follows:
Wealthy people spend money on “Things that make them Wealthy.”
Poor people spend money on “Things that make them feel Wealthy.”
Contrary to popular belief, truly wealthy people don’t own a ton of brand-name products and expensive vehicles (although they do own some).
The reason is simple: Branded products and expensive vehicles don’t generate money for them. In other words, it would be a typical “consumption” to spend money on branded products and expensive vehicles, because the money spent on them will just disappear.
Some people say, “Wearing branded clothes makes me feel good, and it has a positive impact on my work.” But if you really think about it, such a purchase is sure to make you poorer by taking the money out of your wallet.
In other words, you spent the money to get the “feeling of wealth.”
Truly wealthy people spend money in an entirely different manner. When they purchase a product, they will find a craftsman that they truly like, and ask the craftsman to make something that sparks joy in them.
Such a craftsman may not be famous. But if the craftsman is highly skilled, he can produce a high-quality product (at the level equal to brand-name products) for half the price or less.
To elaborate further, instead of consuming luxury, wealthy people purchase good stocks and good pieces of real estate. They spend money on things that generate money.
In other words, wealthy people spend money on “investments” rather than consumption.
Of course, Wealthy people invest money in themselves, too. If acquiring knowledge helps them generate more money, they don’t hesitate to invest money in themselves.
People often say that wealthy people make detailed calculations to make sure that they don’t waste even a rupee. Such a stereotype creates an image of wealthy people as just stingy people.
But that’s not who they really are. Wealthy people think about whether the money that they spend (even if it’s just a dollar) will come back to them with “friends.”
Wealthy people spend money in a way that brings life to money.
Happy Reading!!!
CFP CM ViralKumar Shah (Financial Happiness & Wellness Coach)
A ten-year-old boy spending coins given to him by his grandparents at the candy store. A 55-year-old is paying off the last of her credit card debt. A mom and dad pinching pennies to surprise their teen with a car. Those are examples of what Ken Honda, author of Happy Money: The Japanese Art of Making
Happy Money means Peace with your money.
Honda (a bestselling author of self-development books in Japan) says happy money is cash received and given with joy, satisfaction, and love. So, what’s unhappy money? That, says Honda, is money you earned either doing a job you don’t like, from paying for something you resent, or by stealing money from anyone.
Honda, also known as the Zen Millionaire, also believes that the emotions behind our transactions with money are the impetus that either drives money to us or repels it away from us. Essentially, this is what Honda describes as the Japanese art of making peace with your money — it’s all about your attitude.
According to Honda, when you think of money through feelings of stress and frustration, it probably doesn’t stick around. But when you make and treat money as a joyful exchange — happy to give, happy to receive, always with gratitude and reverence — then your money is happy and flows to you.
When you make and treat money as a joyful exchange — happy to give, happy to receive, always with gratitude and reverence — then your money is happy and flows to you.
Put another way, Honda says that money is energy, and the emotional attitude in which you handle it is either energizing and attracting or limiting and repelling.
6 Ways to Make Your Money Happy
Here’s advice from Honda for making peace with your money:
First, heal any money wounds or negative attitudes you’ve developed by asking yourself how you think about money. Then, forgive your caregivers for any money attitudes or mistakes you learned from them. If you’re often worried about having enough money or your spendthrift ways are causing trouble, Honda says, it’s key to realize that you can think about and treat money differently than your family did.
Second, trust life. Honda believes that people with happy money trust that they will make the right, responsible decisions with their money and that life will work out fine. They focus on friendships, family, and building relationships, and understand it’s the people in their life that are most important, not money.
Third, focus on money EQ(Emotional intelligence)as well as money IQ. Many people have money IQ, knowledge about saving, investing, and debt that they’ve picked up from financial gurus. But, Honda says, it’s not until they also learn Money EQ — the emotional aspects of dealing with their money — that they’re truly financially successful.
People with money EQ earn a living by doing what they love and being true to themselves, says Honda. They spend consciouslyand never feel like they’re wasting money when they buy something. They also enjoy their money by buying experiences rather than products. Plus, they gladly share their money by donating to charity, helping out friends, and buying gifts for loved ones.
Fourth, ditch the scarcity mindset. The scarcity mindset can be a vicious cycle that keeps you mired in thinking, “I don’t have enough” or “I’ll never have enough.” People who are financially successful aren’t necessarily wealthy, but they understand that focusing on a lack of money and always wanting more leaves you always wanting more.
“Those with a poverty mindset will literally eat the seeds that were given to them, for survival, rather than planting them, so that they grow and flourish, and feed their entire family for years and years to come,” says M. Reese Everson, author of The B.A.B.E.’s Guide to Building Wealth. (Everson uses the B.A.B.E. acronym to stand for Beautiful. Ambitious. Brilliant EntrepreneuHERs.)
Fifth, evaluate and adjust your money type as needed. Honda says there are many money types, including the chronicsaver; the chronic spender; the compulsive moneymaker; the person who is indifferent to money; the hippie, who thinks money is bad, and, finally, the money worrier. Once you figure out your money type and how it affects your finances, you can begin to change your pattern, says Honda.
According to Honda, the hippie type who wishes money didn’t exist repels his money by wishing it away. The chronic spender may be trying to compete with friends or neighbors by buying the best stuff — despite financial limitations. The compulsive moneymaker hasn’t yet learned that people are more important to her peace and happiness than her constant drive to make money.
“Don’t let fear or other negative feelings consume you the next time you are parting with your money. Instead, intentionally foster a spirit of calm happiness, knowing there is more money where your previous money came from, as you are spending it.
Sixth, say “Arigato – thank you” often. Honda is adamant about expressing gratefulness during every aspect of your transactions with money. Be grateful for the job you do to make money, thankful when the money arrives, and generous when you can be, he says.
And shift any negative feelings paying bills or taxes to positive ones. For instance, you could think to yourself: “I have so much money I’m able to pay these taxes that help build roads and schools.” Or: “I’m thankful to the electric company for supplying power.”
Want more happy money flowing to your wallet and bank accounts? Honda’s recommendation: change your money mindsets and then see if your money smiles on you.
Happy Reading!!!
CFP CM ViralKumar Shah (Financial Happiness & Wellness Coach)
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